Former Delta flight attendant shares 6 unwritten etiquette rules for flying.
Former Delta flight attendant shares 6 unwritten etiquette rules for flying.
The Unwritten Rules of Flying: Insights from a Former Flight Attendant
Flying can be a stressful experience for both passengers and crew members. However, by treating others with kindness and respect, we can all contribute to a better flight. Natalie Rader, a former flight attendant who worked for Delta and now in private aviation, shares some of the unwritten rules she wishes passengers knew. These rules may seem trivial, but they can make a significant difference in creating a more pleasant and comfortable flying environment.
1. Stick to the luggage rules
When boarding a plane, it is essential to adhere to the luggage guidelines. Natalie emphasizes that passengers should bring only one personal item and one carry-on, as stated by the airline. While you might think you can get away with bringing more than you’re supposed to, it is disrespectful to other passengers. The purpose of these rules is to ensure everyone has enough space for their belongings. By following these guidelines, you are showing consideration for your fellow travelers who have also paid for their seats.
2. Wear your shoes in the lavatory
One of Natalie’s hygiene-related rules is to always wear your shoes when using the lavatory. She explains that accidents can happen, causing people to miss their target, thus soiling the bathroom floor. It may be acceptable to be in socks while seated, but when using the lavatory, wearing shoes is essential for hygiene purposes. So, let’s keep our feet covered and avoid any unwanted surprises.
3. Be mindful of smelly socks and other odors
In the close quarters of an airplane cabin, smells can quickly circulate and become bothersome for fellow passengers. Natalie suggests being cautious with odors, including those coming from foods, like garlic, or cosmetic activities like painting your toenails on the plane. What might seem harmless to you can be an unpleasant experience for others. So, let’s be considerate and mindful of the smells we bring onto the plane.
4. Don’t recline your seat during meal service
While it’s okay to recline your seat for added comfort, it’s important to be mindful of the timing and the people behind you. Natalie advises against reclining your seat abruptly during meal service as it can catch the passenger behind off guard and possibly disturb their dining experience. Whenever possible, try to be considerate, especially if someone has food or a drink on their tray table. A little awareness can go a long way in making everyone’s flight more enjoyable.
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5. Make sure your children have their own earbuds
Noise can be a significant source of annoyance on flights, particularly when it comes from cell phone conversations or loud music. Natalie emphasizes the importance of using earbuds to keep the noise level to a minimum. This also applies to children, whose games and music should be enjoyed with earbuds as well. By ensuring your kids have their own earbuds, you allow fellow passengers to have a more peaceful and enjoyable journey.
6. Be kind and understanding
Flight attendants work diligently to make our flying experience as pleasant as possible. However, they too have their limits. Natalie advises passengers to approach their flight with kindness, respect, and patience. Rather than raising your voice or throwing a fit, be aware that flight attendants are doing their best within the limitations they too face. Flying can be overwhelming, so let’s remember to be flexible and understanding with the challenges that come our way.
Flying can be a stressful and overwhelming experience, but it doesn’t have to be. By following these unwritten rules and being considerate of others, we can all contribute to a more positive and enjoyable flight for everyone involved. Treat your fellow passengers and crew members with kindness and respect, and you’ll find that your flying experience becomes more pleasant. After all, a little empathy can go a long way in making the skies a friendlier place for all.
This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Natalie Rader, a former flight attendant. It has been edited for length and clarity. If you’re a flight attendant and would like to share your story, email Alyshia Hull at [email protected].
