Moved to Mexico alone without knowing the language. Here are 5 tips for international movers.

Moved to Mexico alone without knowing the language. Here are 5 tips for international movers.

Making a Bold Move Abroad: Tips for a Successful Transition

When I moved to Oaxaca City, Mexico, I didn’t have any contacts, know the language, or even have a place to live. It was a bold move, but surprisingly, the process went smoothly. After living here for a month and a half, I’ve experienced some incredible things, from celebrating indigenous culture in a dazzling citywide festival to exploring ancient temples and tomb treasures. I’ve also joined local activities like Capoeira classes and a hiking group, and made new friends. This may not be my first move abroad, as I had previously lived in Paris as a student and spent two years as an expat in Thailand. I’ve also moved to multiple major cities in the US with very few contacts to welcome me. With these experiences in mind, here are five key things to consider if you’re thinking about making a move abroad.

1. Assess the Vibe: Choosing a Place based on Cultural Fit

When considering a move abroad, it’s crucial to choose a location that aligns with your values and interests. For me, Oaxaca City was the perfect match, brimming with creative energy and attracting artists, mystics, hippies, and healers – all the types of people that resonate with me. To get a sense of the local culture and community before my move, I joined Facebook groups related to Oaxaca City. Through these groups, I learned about the housing market, typical rental process, local events, and I asked questions to gauge the vibe of the city. The responsiveness and warmth of the community in these groups gave me confidence that both locals and expats would be welcoming. And I was right! Since arriving, I’ve encountered friendly locals who have been patient with my beginner Spanish and offered their assistance when needed.

2. Approach it as an Experiment: Embrace the Unknown

Moving abroad can be a daunting endeavor, but adopting an experimental mindset can make it an enriching experience. Viewing every aspect of the move as an experiment allows you to embrace uncertainty and learn from the journey. Personally, working remotely enabled me to make this move with minimal risk. My experimental attitude led me to find a beautiful bungalow in a quaint suburb owned by a yoga teacher. The peaceful neighborhood with cobblestone streets, church bells chiming, and an open-air market three times a week has become my home. Socially, I’ve used WhatsApp and social media to connect with fellow expats and like-minded individuals, leading to meaningful friendships and connections.

3. Remember that it’s Enriching, even when it’s Challenging

Solo travel can feel lonely at times, especially during cultural events and celebrations when you may yearn for companionship. However, these highs and lows are part of what makes solo travel so appealing. They build resilience and emotional maturity, exposing you to new experiences and perspectives. In all of my adventures, I’ve always found someone to connect with eventually. Having someone familiar to rely on may have hindered these fortuitous connections. Embrace the challenges, knowing that they contribute to personal growth and enriching experiences.

4. Don’t be Afraid to Retreat: Take Breaks and Recharge

Living abroad can be exhilarating but also exhausting, particularly when faced with language barriers and navigating unfamiliar territories. It’s essential to prioritize self-care and take breaks when needed. For me, some days are dedicated to working, cooking at home, listening to podcasts, and reading. Other times, I indulge in Netflix and YouTube. Allowing yourself to recharge and relax is vital for maintaining balance and mental well-being. Remember, it’s okay to take a step back and enjoy some downtime.

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5. Staying Safe: Understanding the Realities

Safety is a genuine concern for anyone moving to a new country, but it’s essential to differentiate between media stereotypes and the real situation on the ground. While it’s wise to take precautions, not every place in Mexico is a battle zone. Conduct thorough research about the area you’re moving to and rely on trusted sources of information. In Oaxaca City, for example, I’ve found it to be safe and with low violent crime. However, it’s still important to take necessary precautions such as not hiking alone and using cabs for nighttime transportation. Being aware of your surroundings and remaining cautious but not paranoid will contribute to a positive and secure experience.

Moving abroad is a leap of faith that can lead to incredible personal growth and unforgettable experiences. By assessing the cultural fit, approaching it as an experiment, embracing challenges, taking breaks when needed, and staying informed about safety, you can ensure a successful transition. In my case, Oaxaca City has proven to be a peaceful, beautiful, and fascinating place that I am grateful to call home.

About the author: Brittany Vargas is a travel, wellness, and mental health journalist. You can read more of her travel writing on her blog, Nomadic Mystic, and her journalism on her website.

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